(Image description: A partial screenshot of a blog post. The title reads “How I reduced screaming and verbal stimming in my child with autism”, and below that is a colour photograph of a hand holding a rectangular plastic “clicker” device.)
I think I may have mentioned this blog post, and the sadness and confusion I felt when I came across it, in one of my videos. This screenshot is from the blog of an “autism parent”. Yes, that is a clicker. Yes, she is encouraging the use of animal training methods on Autistic children. Yes, she considers any kind of vocal stimming, not just screaming, to be a “bad behaviour”. To top it all off, her blog banner reads, “Discovering SOLUTIONS to the Everyday Problems of Living with AUTISM”. Here is an excerpt from her tutorial on how to train your disabled child like a dog to have a “Quiet Mouth”:
Third, I sat back and watched my child. Since he was making bad noises, I decided to reinforce Quiet Mouth (i.e., lips together, no sound). Whenever he had a split second of Quiet Mouth, I immediately tagged (made a click-sound with the device) and handed over a treat. Every time his mouth was Quiet, I tagged (clicked) and treated. Soon there was much more Quiet Mouth behavior. When doing this it is important to ignore and pay no attention to vocal stims or screaming. Do not look at the child, do not speak to him/her or explain. Just say nothing, and immediately tag and treat as soon as there is even a split second of Quiet Mouth. You can also tag and treat a child for any appropriate vocalizations. If he/she says a nice word, or makes an appropriate comment, then tag and reinforce that. Your goal is to increase Quiet Mouth and appropriate vocalizations.
And sadly, as bad as this attitude and treatment of Autistic children is, this is a relatively tame example when compared to the other unethical treatments, therapies, and methods of discipline that Autistic children are being subjected to every day (all in the name of making them appear less obviously Autistic). This is why we need Autism Acceptance Month and not the fear-mongering, negative, misinformed “awareness” that Autism Speaks and its allies are pumping out this April.
We need acceptance because Autistic children should be loved and accepted wholly and completely for who they are, not hurt and mistreated in their parent’s frantic search for a “cure”. Because Autistic people deserve to be treated with respect and listened to, not silenced and forced or coerced to conform to an ableist, non-disabled ideal. Because Autistic children need accommodation and understanding to live healthy, happy lives, not sketchy “treatments” and intensive, soul-crushing “therapies” to try to make them appear more neurotypical and less Autistic.
For more information on ASAN’s Autism Acceptance Month, see the about page on the website here: http://www.autismacceptancemonth.com/about/
I didn’t even need to finish reading this and I want to vomit
parents like this need to fuck off, both my siblings have autism and my cousin is one year younger than me and she can’t even verbally speak her autism is so bad
if these parents think using techniques used on pets is suitable for training a child then they need to be put away
this is fucked up and disgusting, I don’t even know what to fucking say
Why is it that parents want to HIDE the fact that their children are Autistic? Why do they feel it’s a bad thing? this is fucked up and just heartbreaking
If a parent can’t deal with a child with a mental illness then they don’t deserve children
wanting to draw things but not having the energy to put effort into drawings
I always kind of wished Rani was the main water fairy for the Tinkerbell movie…In the books, she gave up her wings to save Mother Dove’s egg (very important if you don’t read the books), so in the books she walks or is flown by Brother Dove (kind of like being in a wheelchair by human standards). She in this picture still has her wings. She reminds me of Mulan, she showed selflessness and sacrifice. If Disney were to do someone with a disability, Rani would perfect.
what if one day for 24 hours everyone with a tumblr turned into whatever their url is
Why are they harvesting ice? Don´t they have enough?
So she´s like a wizard, right?
Those are huge waves… Did they die?!
-Is that the last song?
Why does she freak out, if she´s wearing her gloves? Oh no, stop! Don´t take them off! Dude, she´s got issues…
How can someone be so hot and so cold at the same time?
-So he´s for the queen, right?
-No, dad, for Anna
-But Anna has her prince!
-Watch the movie, dad.
-The prince is evil, right?
-WATCH THE MOVIE!
"Go enjoy the sun, and open up the gates"
What Sun? THERE IS NO SUN!
Her hair is white! So that´s what happened to me! I have a frozen heart!